ENFP female currently with an INTJ male! When we hang out together it usually goes like this. l'm pretty borderline with ENTP or ENFP, but he brought out the ENFP in me, probably only because in comparison to l won't speak for all INTJs but in his case, l think he really wanted an excuse to loosen up. ESFJ: Sends “good morning” texts to all their friends. enfj: limerence (n) the state of being infatuated with another person. ENFP: A passionate, growth-oriented relationship. INFJ – ENFP Relationship Joys and Struggles. Think Elizabeth Bennett and Mr. ENFP multiverse. ENFP: Chugs gallons of coffee and does everything except for study for finals. They don’t like admitting that they could have gotten out of bed earlier–and not have purposely ignored their alarm (or anyone who attempted waking them up). INTJ At Your Service. We have a rich inner world that allows us to escape the dryness of a life filled with routine and structure. Specifically, we will be looking at the joys of this relationship as well as the struggles this relationship. ENFP in bed.